Dating Again: Conversation Tips

Ask Thoughtful Questions

One big mistake midlifers make on a first date is failing to find out more about the person in front of them. Nervousness can make you talk more and listen less. Instead, think ahead about what types of things you want to learn about your date.

It's a good idea to ask questions that are open-ended so your date will be encouraged to share details of their life that can help you decide if you two have a connection. Some things to ask might include:

• "What made you choose that line of work?"
• "How do you usually spend your weekends?"
• "What's been your favorite vacation so far?"
• "Is there a place you've also wanted to visit but haven't had the chance?"
• "Do you believe in bucket lists? What would yours include?"

Related:

• How the Dating Mistakes of Your 20s Benefit You Now
• Why Friends With Benefits Is a Bad Idea
• Midlife Daters Admit: What I Wish I Knew Then